About Mistress Obelia | Professional Dominatrix & Femdom Specialist
My Journey into Domination
I am Mistress Obelia, a professional dominatrix based in Montreal with formal training in psychological domination and ethical BDSM practices. My approach combines rigorous mentorship, ongoing education, and a dedication to creating transformative experiences for submissives seeking control and guidance.
What Brought Me here
For a long time, I had been interested in this path. The turning point came when I met a submissive partner and I fully immersed myself in a D/s dynamic. Discovering BDSM was profound because I realized how central communication and consent are to these practices—unlike what I had often experienced in vanilla relationships. What I find most fulfilling about this play is the opportunity to explore outside of our typically assigned gender roles and guide submissives through deeply personal psychological journeys.
My Professional Training
My education is somewhat unconventional. I chose to learn from multiple professional dominatrices, kink educators and friends in the community to develop My own code of ethics. I was mentored by two experienced Dommes—one in Boston and another in Toronto—and I continuously attend workshops to acquire technical skills.
My Domination Style
My domination style falls somewhere between the goddess who demands worship and the playful and teasing mommy Domme.
If you play with me, you’ll discover that I love making you do things for My entertainment—this is one of the main driving forces of why I love Femdom. Because after all, it’s My pleasure that matters, right?
My BDSM Ethics
Safety is the core of My practice. I adhere to R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) principles and believe all parties should be aware of risks before engaging in kinky activities. As a professional, if I don’t have adequate safety training for a specific request, I won’t engage with it. Click here for a list of my favourite activities.
Beyond the Dungeon
Favorite Cuisine: Japanese and French
Favorite BDSM Podcast: The Kink Perspective
Favorite Flower: Lilies
Favorite Drink: Latte
Favorite Way to Decompress: An evening at my local spa
Birthday: September 4th
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