Mistress Obelia | Montreal Femdom & BDSM Dominatrix

Frequently asked questions

I am a professional Domina based in Montreal, offering personalized BDSM and kink sessions. I host incall and outcall sessions in Montreal and am available for FMTY (Fly Me To You) arrangements.

I do not offer sex, nudity, or full-body worship. I am NOT a full-service provider. Additionally, you are never allowed to touch Me without permission. Any violation of My rule will result in an immediate end to the session with no refund. Click HERE to view my limits.

To be considered, you must thoroughly read My website to understand My expectations. Then, complete My submissive application form with detailed and thoughtful responses. If I find you suitable, I will contact you by E-mail to discuss availability.

If this is your first time serving Me and you are requesting an incall session in Montreal, a coffee meeting at a café of My choosing will be required before we engage in any play. If you are inquiring about a session in one of My touring locations, a video interview will be required instead.

For incall sessions in Montreal, a $200 cash deposit will be requested when we meet for coffee prior to our playtime. After that, the standard deposit to book a session with Me is 50% of the tribute.

For safety, I require at least one provider reference from the past two years, If you can’t provide any, you must provide: A LinkedIn profile or a personal website verifying your identity and a valid government-issued photo ID. These requirements are non-negotiable. Refusal to comply will result in your application being declined. If you’re concerned about sharing your information online and that you are inquiring about an incall session, I may accept to verify your ID in person.

The session tribute is a mandatory offering that must be presented in cash at the start of the session in an unsealed envelope. I do not like loose bills. Tributes are non-negotiable. Any attempt to bargain will result in blacklisting. Digital payments are only accepted for deposits. Adding a hand-written love letter with My tribute is a great way to enhance our connection.

If you need to reschedule, you must provide at least 48 hours’ notice. Rescheduled sessions must take place within one month of the original date, or the deposit will be forfeited. Cancellations with less than 48 hours’ notice will also result in a lost deposit. No-shows or cancellations made within four hours of the session will be required to pay the full tribute in order to book again. If I need to cancel, which is extremely rare, we will reschedule and your deposit will transfer to the new session.

All sessions take place in a private dungeon in Montreal’s city center. Parking is limited, so I highly recommend using public transportation. If it’s not possible, plan sufficient time to find a parking spot.

I may agree to an outcall for an additional tribute given that the hotel is booked under my name. Any other location will need to be approved by Me. If you wish to inquire about an outcall, additional screening will be required.

I do not tolerate drugs or alcohol before or during a session. If I suspect you are intoxicated, I will end the session right away, and I will keep the full tribute.

If you arrive late to our session, please note that our moment will still end at the originally scheduled time. The duration of your tardiness will not be added to extend the session out of respect for My time and subsequent commitments.

Thoughtful presents are always appreciated, and I truly love receiving gifts. They are a wonderful way to express your appreciation and devotion to Me. Visit My offering page to see how you can please Me.